LadyNRed

2010-12-13T19:59:00.000-08:00

Ok, back with a remix. Mixing the old & the new. When all I wanna be is comfy, this is the fit I go to. It's all old but oh so comfortable. Jacket, leggins, and dress top all for under $40. Toss on the $50 new boots total fit $90 a deal, comfy & cute, priceless. Add your accessories and presto- a comfy fit that you still look good in. Damn I don't like havin to follow a dress code especially since it elinated my favs like jeans. But when I see folks out in public, in business arenas I truly understand.

2010-12-08T17:50:00.000-08:00

From your Fashionista DIVA, ok ladies lets add some color to our lives as well as our wardobe. Black pants do not change my size 10 pants and neither does white for that matter. A parent of mine was shock to see me in color one day and told me that I only wore black. Not realizing this was the case I went home and searched for color and I must say she was right. Black, browns and gray. Wow. I guess I was in daily mourning, so glad to re-discover the joys of color and prints. Hell I did't even wear black to my mother's funeral. She was such a firecracker I asked all who honored her to wear red. Mix & match the old with the new and the expensive/inexpensive items. I found a Fossil watch that makes me feel like Wonder Woman when I put it on. It compliments who I am. It's larger than your average ladies watch but not as big as a man's I guess that's for my inner tom boy. It got enough bling for the girly/girl that I'm letting shine. Dressy yet casual can be worn with anything. Accessorizing also makes a big difference. I wear earrings daily again, this is wear I mix in the cheap often lose I never spend more than $10 for a pair and that's pricey. Jackets, they just tend to pull a fit together and since I'm always cold this is a plus. Till next time stay fasionable.

2010-12-07T21:06:00.000-08:00

Ok this is the NOOK by Barnes&Noble. This is my bestest toy ever. One of my many treats to myself. Anyhoo this gadget is the ipod of books but way easier to DL my books than my music. Still haven't added music to my ipod on my own. Had this for 3 months and have already DL & read five books. Yes I am an avid reader and this came right in time because I had began to question myself as to where would I store anotha book because there is really no more room on my 3 bookshelves that stands 6ft. tall. Amoir is overloaded I even utilize a shelf at work for my own personal books. So "This Right Here" also serves as a storage solution. The great plus is that the books are always cheaper and you can share your books with your friends who also have the NOOK.

2010-12-07T19:47:00.000-08:00

Fasionista Diva, always been into fashion, but like so many women who are blessed with a family, home and a career may have experienced a fashion rut as I have. I want even mention the weight gain and the struggle to get it off ya back. My quirky tv show to watch while most is checkin in on DHW of Where Eva, I like to tune into What Not To Wear. I also see how much $$$ they spend on clothes and always feel not only can I match the high end outfit I can get it at fractions of the cost. So here is my spin on Beauty On A Budget. For all ma women do yourself a favor and go get a bra fittin. An older gentleman once told me "That a woman only feels as good as she looks underneath." Hey women take out some time and $ and spend them both on yourself every now and then. The people we take care of will understand and even appreciate it. Head -to-Toe fit $140 feelin and lookin GREAT, Priceless!!!!

What's Goin On

2010-12-05T19:58:00.000-08:00

Just finished my third class for this semester and will complete my fourth next week. Sittin at my computer enjoying the rain and what's left of my weekend. Even when days are movin faster than others & lifes bumps get the best of me I still know that I am truly blessed and highly favored. I know this cuz after I've gone through something I often ask how did I make it through that & that's when I get that light bulb moment and realize that I didn't make it through, God carried me through what ever it was. When I give myself the luxury of quality quiet time alone I recognize all my blessings that are around me & it's not the material things it's my family, friends, place of employment, a home to retreat to when the world is rough but I'm so thankful for an open mind and heart. Till next time be safe and kind, if not kind at least be safe.

2010-06-20T10:57:00.000-07:00

JUST FOR TODAY

Just for today- I will have program. I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will save myself from two pests: hurry & indecision.

Just for today- I will have a quiet half hour all by myself & relax. During this half hour, sometime, I will try to get a better perspective of my life.

Just for today-I will be unafraid. Especially I will not be afraid to enjoy what is beautiful & to believe that as I give to the wolrd, so the world will give to me.

Just for today -I will try to live through this day only, & not tackle all my problems at once. I can do something for 12 hours that would appal me if I felt that I had to keep it up for a lifetime.

Just for today-I will be happy. This assumes to be true what Abraham Lincoln said, that "Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be."

Just for today-I will adjust myself to what is, & not try to adjust everything to my own desires. I will take my "luck" as it comes, & fit myself to it.

Jut for today- I will try to strengthen my mind. I will study. I will learn something useful. I will not be a mental loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought & concentration.

Just for today- I will exrcise my soul in three ways : I will do somebody a good turn, & not get found out; if anybody knows of it, it will not count. I will do at least two things I don't want to do-just for exercise. I willnot show anyone that my feelings are hurt; they may be hurt, but today I will not show it.

Just for today- I will be agreeable. I will look as well as I can, dress becomingly, keep my voice low, be courteous, criticize not one bit. I won't find fault with anything, nor try to improve or regulate anybody but myself.

Emergency Kit Altered Project(Back)

2010-06-03T20:01:00.000-07:00

Contents Include; CHARLESTON CHEW: To

remind self to "CHEWS" to stay calm when thingds

get tense. PLAYING CARD: To help "DEAL" with

challenges. LAFFY TAFFY: To remind self that

laughter is an instant stress reliever. SAFETY

PIN: To help hold everything together.

PEPPERMINT PATTIE: To remember to keep my

cool. THYME SEED PACKET: TO aid in using my "THYME" wisely. STRESS MANAGEMENT

POCKET PAL: So stress relief tips are always at hand.

Altered Project (front)

2010-06-03T19:55:00.000-07:00

School year is coming to an end. I'm already preping for next year to keep me going to the end of this year. This is my emergency kit for just One-of-Those-Days at work.

A Letter From My Mother

2010-06-03T19:19:00.000-07:00

January 2007

Girl I got some bad news for you. Brace yourself, and please don't scream or cry. The

Pillsbury Doughboy died yesterday of a yeast infection and trauma complications from repeated

pokes in the belly. Let moma know, he was 71. Doughboy was buried in a lightly greased coffin.

Dozens of celebrities turned out to pay their respects, including; Mrs. Butterworth, Hungry Jack,

The California Raisins, Betty Crocker, The Hostess Twinkies, and Captain Crunch. The grave site

was piled high with FLOURS. Aunt Jemima delivered the eulogy and lovingly described Doughboy as

a man who never knew how much he was KNEADED. Doughboy ROSE quickly in show business, but

later life was filled with many TURNOVERS. He was not considered a very SMARTCOOKIE,

wasting much of his DOUGH on HALF-BAKED schemes. Despite being a little FLAKEY at times, he

still was a crusty old man and was considered a great ROLL model for millions. Doughboy is

survived by his wife PLAY DOUGH, 2 children; John Dough & Jane Dough, plus they had 1 in the

OVEN. He is also survived by his elderly father POP TART. The funeral was held @ 3:50 for about

20 minutes.

Love Mom

Attitude

2009-11-28T10:12:00.000-08:00

"The longer I live, the more I realized the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people think or say or do. It is more importanct than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company...a church...a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past...we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one thing we have, and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it."

by Charles swindoll

The Clock

2009-11-24T22:20:00.000-08:00

The clock of life is wound but once, and no man has the power to tell just when the hands will stop at late or early hour.

To lose one's wealth is sad indeed. To lose one's health is more.

But to lose one's soul is such a loss that no man can restore.

Blessed are the dead who died in the Lord. Rev. 14:13

Comes The Dawn...

2009-11-23T15:58:00.000-08:00

After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and sharing a soul, and you learn that love doesn't mean learning and company doesn't mean security.

And you begin to learn that kisses are not contracts and presents arn't promises.

And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open.

With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.

And you learn to build all of your roads today because tomorrow's ground is to uncertain for plans, and futures have a way of falling down in mid flight.

After awhile, you learn that even sunshine burns if you get to much.

So you plant your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong, and you really do have worth.

And you learn and you learn...
With every good-bye, you learn.

21 THINGS BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD DO

2009-11-23T14:35:00.000-08:00

1). Register to vote

2). Take all that money out of those stocking caps, tin cans, mattresses, and floor boards & invest money in something. For starters, invest in the food you eat.

3). Learn another language, ebonics doesn't count.

4). Stop using the "N" word in 2010, especially since Merriam-Webster has announced that it isn't changing the definition.

5). Buy something each week from a black vendor. Not out of obligation but for support and encouragement.

6). Subscribe to a magazine; EBONY, JET, BLACK ENTERPRISE, ESSENCE. Then subscribe to one of the weeklies; TIME, NEWSWEEK, or U.S. NEWS & WORLD REPORT. After learning what's going on in OUR world, learn about the whole world it is after all, your wold.

7. Stop blaming white folks for 98% of your problems while giving them 100% of your money.

8). Stop walking past each other without speaking.

9). Be on time for something.. ANYTHING!!!

10). Get an annual check up; herbs don't cure anything.

11). In all the ways acknowledge Him(God) & he shall direct your path. Prioritize this as #1.

12). Stop being jealous of one another, learn to look past the material things & see the person for who they are.

13). Get involved in at least one charitable or voluntary community service.

14). Say a prayer for someone else other than yourself.

15). Hug your child, spouse, friend, or parent today. If you are blessed to have more than one of these persons in your life hug them all and often.

16). LOVE ONE ANOTHER

17). Learn to let go & let God.

18). Stop talking about it and be about it.

19). Let God order your steps instead of the world.

20). P.U.S.H Pray Until Something Happens!

21). In all that you do, get understanding, (turn off the T.V, & open a book). Don't just read this, Do It & encourage others. Have a blessed day.

Children Learn What They Live

2009-11-23T10:19:00.000-08:00

If a child lives with criticism. He learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility. He learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule. He learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame. He learns to feel guilty.
If achild lives with tolernace. He learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement. He learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise. He learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness. He learns justice.
If a child lives with security. He learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval. He learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship. He learns
to find love in the world.

How is your child living and what will he learn?

Walt Disney

2009-11-23T09:12:00.000-08:00

"All our dreams

Can come true

If we have the courage

to pursue them"

"Daily Affirmations" I Am Promising Myself

2009-11-23T08:55:00.000-08:00

I am so strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind. I am talking health, happiness and prosperity to every person I meet. I am making all my friends feel that there is something in them.I am looking at the sunny side of everything & making my optimism come true. I am thinking only of the best, working only for the best & expecting only the best. I am just as enthustiastic about the success of others as I am about my own. I am forgetting the mistakes of the past & pressing on the greater achievements of the future. I am wearing a cheerful countenance at all times & giving every living creature I meet a smile. I am giving so much time to the improvement of myself that I have no time to criticize others. I am to large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, & to happy to permit the presence of trouble.

Dear Friend,

2009-11-23T07:47:00.000-08:00

This morning when I woke up, you were on my mind. I could not help but remember what you did to me. Then I thought about the saying, "Don't get mad get even." & I decided to do just that. Matter of fact, this is a "Get Even Letter." It is time I "Get even" with you for being a blessing to me! So often we focus on the negative things people have done in our life and we want to get even with them. I chose to focus on the positive & take a moment to thank as many people as I can for being in my life for a Reason or for a Season.

Maybe we don't talk everyday, or maybe I only see you once a year, but God put you in my life for a Season. Maybe we talk often and we see each other daily. Well, God placed you in my life for a Reason. Whichever the case, I am grateful for what you have done for me.

Do you remember the time(s) you encouraged me, called me, prayed for me, fed me, visited me,laughed with me, made me laugh, helped me, drove me somewhere, cooked for me, listened to me, & cared for me when I was sick? Do you remember the time when you trusted me, respected me, & believed in me? I do, I REMEMBER! I'll never forget!

I want to thank you for those times. I know I can never repay you for all the things you have done for me, but God will reward you for every deed. I can however, "Get Even" with you with LOVE. I hope that you know that I am praying for you, & I believe in you too. If there is anything I can ever do for you, please let me know.

I hope this "GET EVEN LETTER" will remind you that your living is not in vain. The Word of God says in Matthew 25:40; "In as much as you done it into the least of my little ones, you have done it onto me." Stay encouraged & remember that you are loved. Jesus loves you & so do I. May God continue to richly bless you & keep you in his perfect will.

Your Friend, Alondra

A Woman Of Strength

2009-11-23T01:22:00.000-08:00

A strong woman works out everyday to keep her body in shape... but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape.

A strong woman isn't afraid of anything... but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of fear.

A strong woman want let anyone get the best of her... but a woman of strength gives the best of herself to everyone.

A strong woman makes mistakes & avoids the same in the future... a woman of strength realizes life's mistakes can also be God's blessings & capitalizes on them.

A strong woman walks surefootedly... but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls.

A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face... but a woman of strength wears grace.

A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey... but a woman of strength has faith in the journey that she will become strong.

Striving to move from a strong woman to a woman of strength.

T.G.I.F

2009-11-23T00:18:00.000-08:00

Thank God I'm Forgiven

Just Because

2009-11-22T23:56:00.000-08:00

just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gold mine you are, doesn't mean you shine any less.
Just because no one has been smart enough to figure out that you can't be topped, doesn't stop you from being the best.
Just because no one has come along to share your life, doesn't mean that day isn't coming.
Just because no one has made this race worthwhile, doesn't give you permision to stop running.
Just because no one has realized how much of an awesome woman you are, doesn't mean they can affect your femininity.
Just because no one has came along to take the loneliness away, doesn't mean you have to settle for lower quality.
Just because no one has shown up to love you on your level, doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs.
Just because you deserve the very best there is, doesn't mean that life is always fair.
Just because God is still preparing your king, doesn't mean that you're not already a queen.
Just because your situation doesn't seem to be progressing right now, doesn't mean you need to change a thing.
Keep shining
Keep running
Keep hoping
Keep praying
Keep being exactly what you already are;
COMPLETE!

I Apologize

2009-11-22T22:21:00.000-08:00

I apologize black woman for all the seen & unseen lies,for the heartache and pain that brought tears to your eyes.
I apologize black woman for not being true from the start,for running away from you, leaving a hole in your heart.
For ignoring your feelings & pushing them aside, because I was arrogant & pumped with pride.
I apologize for making promises I couldn't keep,for building a foundation on trechery & deceit.
Being selfish & inconsiderate, I did what I wanted to do,without thinking of you.
I apologize for not holding you through restless nights and stormy days, for my foolish thoughts & immature ways.
Instead of carrying your love with me, I just threw it on the shelf, after we made love I turned away, only thinking of myself.
You cried your heart for me, while I was out running wild & loose, I destroyed the essence of your love with physical, mental, & emotional abuse.
I gave you hell black woman by giving up when times got rough, I didn't slap you, push you, I neglected you-& that's bad enough!
Now I see why you build a wall around yourself, it is me you despise, but that's the price that I have to pay for all the times I wore a diguise.
I pray to God that one day you will realize, that I LOVE YOU BLACK WOMAN & I APLOLOGIZE.

Apology accepted Black Man

A Good Woman

2009-11-22T22:01:00.000-08:00

A good woman knows God. She knows that with God the world is her playground, but without God she will just be played with.

A good woman is proud. She respects herself & others. She is aware of who she is. She niether seeks definition from the person she's with, nor does she expect them to read her mind. She is quite capable of articulating her needs.

A good woman is hopeful. She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true. She knows love, therefore she gives love. She recognizes that her love has great value & must be reciprocated. If her love is taken for granted it soons disapear.

A good woman has a dash of inspiration & a dabble of endurance.

She knows that she will have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them. A good woman knows her past, understands her present & forces toward the future.

A good woman does not live in fear of the future because of her past. Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons meant to bring her closer to self-knowledge & unconditional self-love.

Striving to be A Good Woman.